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Sunday, February 7, 2010

Hairloss and my sex life?

So if you happen to have read on my other blog you will know by now I was diagnosed with Alopecia (a condition that causes random to total, in my case total, hairloss). The catalyst for the Alopecia is unknown, which is really sickening to me. But what is my most recent concern? My sex life.

Why? Well I know J says he will still love me, and I don't doubt that, but I also know that he likes long hair. It kills me to think that when he comes home I may have, no...most likely will have no hair left on my head. I know he loves me, but what will he think of me? Will he be in shock, will he not mind at all, truly not mind? Will it be unattractive to him? I really believe these are valid concerns of a married woman.

*Sigh*

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2 comments:

Melen said...

I think it's a valid concern. I am particularly fond of long hair as well, and I'd admit I'd shed a tear if rayne lost all of her hair.

However, I don't think it'd change my feelings for her at all, and the only relationship change at all would be the inability to grab her by the hair.

There's always wigs, too. And that could be a bit of fun.

February 7, 2010 at 11:58 AM
Alley said...

Thank you Melen, it is really nice to hear a man's view on this. I am sure J will need to adjust once he gets home, but I think I will take him and let him pick out any wig he wants for me. :)

February 7, 2010 at 6:47 PM